The dating scene has changed quite a bit over the years, but one thing is still true: If you can just avoid the mistakes most guys make when dating women, you’ll have no problem with how to get a girlfriend. The fact is that most guys make small blunders that kill a woman’s attraction almost instantly without even knowing it.
The first date can be the most nerve wracking. You don’t want to be in an embarrassing or awkward situation with nothing to say and nothing to talk about or do. That’s why it’s a good idea to have a plan and to also have an emergency back up plan if things aren’t going so smoothly. It may save the date and even wind up the most memorable part of the night. Here are three why not try these out to do on a first date.
This is easy, because all you have to do is walk up to her and her friends and act like you were late for meeting them. They will wonder where they know you from, and before they can even ask you, order a drink and start talking about a sad story. Say on the way over you found out your best friend has cancer, and he is only 20 something.
This may sound strange, but the best way to get over your shyness is to take control. If you are shy about making conversation, you should break this barrier by asking your date about himself. This way, he will know that you are interested, but most importantly, this takes pressure off of you. Letting him do the talking will relieve stress making it easier to relax and be open enough to respond to questions that he may have for you.
Do not make him feel like your Date is an interrogation though, don’t force him to answer some very personal questions, and try to steer clear of riddle questions! Men are not just interested in looks, they also want an intelligent partner. Make sure you know all about current events, so you can chat about them if needed.
Online dating used to mean creepy men in raincoats heavily breathing over their computers as their greasy palms typed away trying to seduce some unsuspecting woman 300 miles away. Or so the urban myth goes. Now it’s de rigeur to chat and flirt online. In fact, if you’ve never had a date online, you’re missing out on what over 20 million people are enjoying every month.
Try it out – once you’ve fixed this up, read my stuff on how to send a good initial email to her. For know, just know that it should be short and snappy – I often poke fun at her in the first email so she thinks ‘what a cheeky ****’ and feels compelled to hit me back with something equally cheeky in response.